There are days in life that feel like they were written by the universe, days when emotions run high, when the past whispers softly to the present, and when the future opens its arms a little wider. Today was one of those days.
This morning, as the sun peeked through our windows, I could already feel something different in the air. There was excitement, nervousness, joy and a quiet sense of awe. Today, my brother graduated from college. A moment we had all prayed for, worked hard for, and dreamed of together as a family.
I remember how it all began from his sleepless nights reviewing for exams, the days he felt overwhelmed, to the quiet moments when he just kept going. There were times when we doubted if we could make it, especially with life throwing its usual hurdles. But faith, perseverance, and family held us together.
As I watched him march across the stage, head held high, diploma in hand, I couldn’t help but tear up. It wasn’t just pride I felt it was something deeper. A sense of blessing. Of having witnessed a young man evolve, despite the odds. I whispered a quiet "Thank You, Lord" in my heart."Behind every graduation cap thrown in the air is a story of late nights, silent tears, countless sacrifices, and unwavering love."
But what made the moment even more meaningful was something spiritual.
Today also happens to be the birthday of our beloved grandmother, our Lola. She’s no longer with us here on earth, but her presence was felt more than ever. I believe she orchestrated today’s sunshine from above, wrapping us in her love and whispering, “I’m proud of you all.” I can almost imagine her smiling down at my brother, with eyes that sparkled with pride and love.
"Those who have left us don’t disappear; they simply move closer to our hearts, guiding us quietly, fiercely, from a place beyond sight."
She was a woman of faith, of resilience, of laughter and gentle hands. I carry her lessons with me in how I treat people, how I rise after a fall, and how I cherish family. And today, her presence was like a warm hug.
And of course, this victory, this milestone wouldn’t have been possible without our Papa. I don’t think we say it enough, but fathers like ours are the true unsung heroes. He was never one to ask for praise. But we know the truth that behind our achievements are the years he spent working, sacrificing, and choosing our needs above his own.
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"The quiet strength of a father is often the foundation upon which dreams are built."
Papa worked tirelessly to make sure we never missed a day of school. He didn’t always have much, but what he gave us was everything: courage, values, and the belief that we could reach for more. This graduation is not just my brother’s win, it’s Papa’s victory, too.
While my heart celebrates all these beautiful things today, it’s also fluttering with nervous excitement. This week, Ma’am Mitch shared that our visa documents will be lodged. That means… it’s really happening. Our Canada dream is one step closer.
And honestly? I’m scared. I’m hopeful. I’m overwhelmed.
Visa processing feels like stepping into the unknown, a place between “what if” and “what will be.” But in between all those emotions, I choose to hold onto faith. That this dream, like my brother’s graduation, will also come true.
"Faith is believing in the unseen. It’s walking toward something you can feel in your heart before you see it with your eyes."
Then there’s the real talk… budgeting is getting real. 😅 Every peso is planned. Every expense is questioned. I’ve found myself calculating and recalculating everything from plane tickets to groceries to rent deposits. It’s a challenge, yes, but also a blessing. Because it means we’re finally on the verge of a brand new beginning. And beginnings, as we know, are sacred.
✨ Key Reflections from Today:
1. Success is a family effort.
Graduation isn’t just a personal victory it’s the triumph of everyone who supported, prayed, sacrificed, and believed.
2. Our loved ones who’ve passed continue to walk with us.
Their love transcends time and space. And in the most special moments, we feel them the strongest.
3. Our fathers are quiet warriors.
They might not always say much, but their love is in everything they do often in silence, always in strength.
4. It’s okay to feel scared about what’s next.
Nervousness doesn’t mean weakness. It means you care. It means the dream is big and real.
5. Budgeting is a form of self-love.
It’s preparing for a future that matters. It’s aligning our finances with our values and our dreams.
As the day ends, I sit with full gratitude. For the wins, the memories, the legacy of our Lola, the strength of our Papa, the courage of my brother, and the unfolding chapter of our Canada dream.
Here’s to celebrating today’s joy, honoring the past, and bravely stepping into tomorrow.
Canada soon. God-willing.
One step at a time.
Hearts full, hands open.
— Vianie 💛
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